Best way for music playing using Discord Bots

I have currently tried the things listed: lavalink using: yt cipher puppeteer to generate spotify tokens for the spotity playlists (headless browser) i am currently trying to connect my Lavalink Server to the Discord Bot server using just pure IP:Port format instead of having to tunnel them through cloudflare since its causing uptime issues and reconnecting issues, same for ngrok is there an alternative way for doing this which includes lavalink and properly plays music, without skipping songs randomly that it cant fetch. I already have a way to play music using Youtube specifically through OAuth tokens from burner accounts Please anything would help genuinely.